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Before you get all excited, no – I have not learned to dance.  But I am starting to learn!  For a person who is terrible with names (people, places, names to describe dance moves, etc.) this is probably going to be a HUGE challenge for me…that, and the fact that I am not athletic…at all.  I hear my dance instructor say, “This is a…” and it is suddenly like I am Charlie Brown on Peanuts listening to his teacher.  “Wah, wah, wah…”  It is not that I find it boring, I am just a really, really bad listener when it comes to names.  It is like I trained my brain to turn off when someone says, “Hi, I’m…wah, wah, wah.”  I really do want to know their name.  I do care!  My brain just needs some serious retraining.

That being said, I have found an AMAZING dance studio here is Stilly that is a perfect fit for me!  They don’t care that I’m an old lady…in the sense that I am only just beginning to learn at 28.  In fact, they just love dancing, and they love that other people love dancing too.  Whether or not they are rolling their eyes behind my back because I am currently, and hopefully not eternally, uncoordinated and awkward, the students and teachers are so incredibly helpful and encouraging.  They don’t seem to care that I am completely uneducated in the department of dance.  They genuinely seem to be happy that I want to learn, regardless of my blank slate.

Being a perfectionist, I am not entirely sure how long it will take me before I am remotely near ready to do turns, but I can hardly sleep at night, I am so excited that I finally worked up the courage to learn.  So if any of you out there are looking for a place to learn how to dance and are in the Stillwater area, here’s a shout out for Art of Dance!  Click on the image below to check them out!

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I spent a lot of my married life dreaming and wishing for my little one to come.  After seven years of marriage and four years of disappointment, we were finally surprised with the best thing I have ever made.  After my sweet E was born, I realized that I had spent so much of my time holding out for the one dream of motherhood, that I had forgotten that I had other dreams too.  Thankfully, with the encouragement of my sweet hubby and the inspiration my daughter gave me, I am finally sitting down and thinking again about the other dreams I have for my life.  It is time for me to stop sitting around waiting for life to happen to me and instead, grab a hold of life and make things I can control happen.  So here I am sitting down and putting my bucket list online for the world to see.  Hopefully that will keep me motivated…

(I’m putting a year on my bucket list, but that doesn’t mean I intend to accomplish all of these things this year.  I just want to know when it was that I created this bucket list, so I can see how far I’ve come as time goes by.)  Without further ado, and in no particular order, my bucket list:

1.  Learn to dance

2.  Become a published author

3.  Visit every continent…and then visit them again

4.  Learn French

5.  Recycle

6.  Plant a vegetable garden

7.  Renovate my kitchen (this seems to be becoming more of a “to do” list…)

8.  Visit all 50 states

9.  Learn Japanese

10.  Learn to tread water (I know, I know, it’s crazy that with two years of swim class as a child, I never figured it out.  I suppose it could have had something to do with the fact that my swimming instructor made me terrified of water.)

11.  Maintain a successful blog (haha!  I had to include that one.)

There’s much more, but I’m done for now.  I don’t want to overwhelm myself!  I will post progress as I make it.  Hopefully this encourages you to sit down and think about the things that you want to do.  I don’t want to come to the end of my life and think of all the things I let pass me by because I was too scared to make them happen.  I hope to look back on my life and feel satisfied with my accomplishments and experiences.  I wish the same for you.